Amen. Yesterday was my oldest sons 9th birthday. He was in the front seat at the time of the accident, and he witnessed hisaunt expire. Does anyone have a grief counseler in the area that they know and could recommend? He not right. He's not coping well. He knows that she is dead, and watched her die, but has since supressed that knowledge and is talking about visiting her at her house this summer, and discussing all the plans they made together as if they are still going happen, and she is still here.