captken

No matter what the cost, take care of your kids. Been there, done that, a long time ago. If your wife is an unfit parent and you can prove it, take the kids. They will be better for it.

I have 2 childeren with my ex. They have been nothing but pleasure.(After age 16 or so) My ex has 2 grandchildren she has never seen and likely never will see. Her great loss.

Next time, find a keeper.

Oh yeah, if you get the chance, nail your ex's little sister.

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gocatchfish37

To add on to this, from watching my family, drinking does NOT make anything better, it only makes matters worse.

mdrobe2

PM me- I have a small boat ready to fish, and don't turn my nose up at a cold beer. I also have every other week off from work.

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craasch210

If you're 25, then she is probably your age or younger. What's her mom look like? I cant think of a better revenge than to bang her mom. That is of course, if you can talk her into it. LOL!

dbyrd2100

You have gotten a great deal of good advice from the earlier responses. All I can add is to look at this bad situation like an "opportuntiy". There are literally a million women out there to take your mind off of this one. Limit your financial liability and enjoy yourself finding a new girlfriend. Good luck.Take the "High Road" andBe strong.

wanabe fishing

Maybe you could bring her to one of the PFF bashes and introduce her to everybody.

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jspooney

[quote]dbyrd2100 (8/17/2008)You have gotten a great deal of good advice from the earlier responses.quote]

Respectfully...I think not. The advice so far has been to get revenge and think of yourself (with the exception of taking care of the kids.) Not throwing stones, but "please remember to take care of yourself first"is one sure way to end a marriage in divorce or, for that matter, simplyhave a non-fulfilling marriage. If you take care of yourself first you are not loving your spouse with the kind of love that is needed to be married. Just a thought. I wish you the best and pray you can be a great dad for your kids. Remember thatdivorce is ALWAYS traumaticfor the kids. They will need their mom and dad.

seacapt

[quote]jspooney (8/18/2008)

I think the problem is that his spouse has been getting too much love...

jspooney

very well may be the case...but love still doesn't think or behave the way it is being portrayed here.